On July 14th, 2025, Debra Gilder passed away after a long and courageous battle with ovarian cancer. Her departure has left a profound emptiness in the lives of those who knew and loved her, but her spirit remains a beacon of strength, hope, and unshakable faith.
Even in her most difficult moments, Debra inspired everyone around her with her resilience, grace, and steadfast belief that light could always be found even in the darkest places.
Debra’s journey through cancer was marked by remarkable courage.
Never one to complain or dwell in self-pity, she instead turned outward, choosing to uplift others even while navigating her own pain.
She spent her final months comforting loved ones, sharing wisdom, offering prayers, and keeping her faith as her compass.
Her hospital room became a place of peace, reflection, and even joy because Debra’s spirit refused to be dimmed by illness.
Her story is not one of suffering, but of triumph: a testament to what it means to live with purpose and dignity in the face of adversity.
Born and raised in Houston, Debra lived a life rooted in love, community, and spiritual conviction.
She was not only a devoted mother but a compassionate friend, a trusted mentor, and a woman who wore many hats with quiet strength and unwavering humility. Her kindness was boundless.
She was the type of person who remembered birthdays, showed up with meals when someone was sick, and offered a listening ear without judgment.
Debra’s greatest joy was her family, especially her children, for whom she served as a steady source of love, guidance, and faith.
Her nurturing presence shaped their lives in ways both profound and practical offering not only comfort but life lessons that will remain with them always.
In the many roles she held mother, sister, aunt, neighbor, church member Debra gave of herself wholeheartedly. Her faith wasn't just spoken, it was lived. It radiated through her actions, her words, and her presence.
As her loved ones now face the overwhelming pain of loss, they do so with immense gratitude for the time they had with her and for the outpouring of love from the Houston community.
In these difficult days, the family continues to receive heartfelt condolences, prayers, and generous support, both emotional and financial.
Planning her memorial service has been a heavy task, made lighter by the kindness of those surrounding them.
Debra's family wishes to express their sincerest thanks to all who have reached out in their time of grief.
Whether through a warm message, a thoughtful gesture, or a contribution toward her memorial, every act has reminded them that Debra’s legacy is one of connection and compassion.
She touched countless lives many of whom are now returning that love in her honor.
Debra Gilder will be remembered not only for her strength and resilience but for the unwavering light she brought into the world.
Her memory will continue to inspire all who knew her, and her legacy will endure in the lives she shaped through her faith, her love, and her extraordinary grace.
As her family prepares to lay her to rest, they do so with both heavy hearts and grateful spirits, knowing that Debra is finally at peace and that her life will never be forgotten.
